Half-Full Book Review
Steve Farber and the Ultimate Gift of Leadership
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Steve Farber is quite the dreamer when it comes to defining great leadership.
What I’ve always admired about him was his willingness to aim high - like for example, in his book “The Radical Edge“, where he dared to believe that we could mix great business with personal joy and in the process, “change the world“.
It’s not often that leaders try to think that way, but Steve challenged us to do that, passionately and eloquently.
But that wasn’t quite enough - there was more for him to say about leadership, something of an even higher calling and purpose
That something was love.
Now that’s really a radical leap - linking love and leadership. More precisely, Steve sees leadership as a selfless act of love - much like a parent and child.
This constitutes the core of his latest book, “Greater Than Yourself“ - the concept that leaders should “go beyond the tenets of the Golden Rule and help others to be better than they are themselves“.
Just like a mother or father expressing their love by doing everything they can to make their child’s future better than their own, Steve sees great leadership through much the same lens- and in a much more personal way than conventional leadership wisdom usually dictates.
Through the same “business parable” style he employed in his other two books (including “The Radical Edge“), Steve himself tells the tale of a special guitar, and how his search for one of its previous owners slowly reveals the “Greater Than Yourself” philosophy (and a framework to use it) through a cast of dedicated practitioners.
It’s a fast, enjoyable read, and the use of storytelling brings his points home very effectively. The author’s passion for the subject clearly comes through - I didn’t doubt for a second that he truly believes that what he presented represented “true” leadership, on its highest plane of existence.
The real test however, is whether his readers will believe it, and ultimately reach for it. He ups the ante by presenting an Epilogue to the book that shows the principles in action (by the group Up With People), and also invites us to a new website where he is taking on his own “GTY” projects.
That’s where the rubber meets the road - can we too become so selfless, so loving, and so giving as leaders, like the characters in the book? The answer lies inside our own hearts and souls.
I’m sure Steve knew the degree of difficulty he faced here, but this didn’t stop him from putting his personal feelings on his literary sleeve and trying to penetrate those inner sanctums that rarely see the light of day between 8 and 5, Monday through Friday.
I for one am quite glad he did. Read this book and I bet you’ll feel the same way too.
The JJL Book Review: “Career Renegade” by Jonathan Fields
Filed Under: Half-Full Book Review • Joyful Jubilant Learning
I am a regular contributor to Rosa Say’s wonderful site, Joyful Jubilant Learning. This month we are celebrating the written word in our annual “Love Affair With Books“.
Today it was my turn to post a review, and I’ve picked a book I highly recommend; “Career Renegade” by Jonathan Fields.
Please go to JJL to read the entire review. Allow me to entice you to do it with this statement:
“Career Renegade” is the complete package for anyone looking for career guidance, providing up-to-date, useful and actionable advice as well as empowering you to chip away at your fears and take that great leap into the unknown, so you can do what you love and make a great living at it.
If you are looking to make a change in your life, or just want to learn more about career development, check out my review (and then the book) right now!
Starbucker’s review of “Career Renegade”.
10 Great Books For the Holidays (and Help Preserve our National Parks)
Filed Under: Half-Full Book Review
One of the things I’ve really enjoyed doing on this blog is reviewing books - all kinds of books. The list is now up to 29, and they are all listed in “Starbucker’s Amazon Store“.
The reviews themselves are in my “Half-Full Book Review” category.
All of these books are recommended, but here are 10 that are especially meaningful to me:
- “Einstein“, by Walter Isaacson. I now look at the Universe in a totally different (and magical) way.
- “Good to Great”, by Jim Collins. Provides an essential understanding of what it takes to be a long-term business success.
- “Citizen Soldiers“, by Stephen Ambrose. I could have picked three books by Ambrose, but this one left the most lasting mark on me about the courage and bravery of these men during WWII.
- “Pour Your Heart Into It“, by Howard Schultz. As I said in my review, “The book serves as an excellent case study in “leadership with heart”. Schultz is an undying “inclusive optimist”.”
- “1776″, by David McCullough. A real and gripping profile in courage (and great leadership).
- “7 Ways To Screw Up Your Life (and how to unscrew it)” , by Marti Lawrence. I just reviewed this, and I contributed a short chapter entitled “The Roller Coaster Theory“
- “This is Your Brain on Music“, by Daniel J. Levitin. If you ever wondered why music could have such an effect on you (as it does with me), this is a book for you. Utterly fascinating.
- “Orbiting the Giant Hairball“, by by Gordon MacKenzie. A fun look at how courage and “genuineness” can unlock creativity within the workplace.
- “The Radical Edge“, by Steve Farber. Wanna lead AND change the world? Dare to dream big. Read this book and find out how.
- “Joy At Work“, by Dennis W. Bakke. Can work really be fun? Can it be joyful? This book answers “yes!”
In the spirit of the holiday season, if you visit my Amazon page and buy one of these books, (or any of the other 19 on the page) all of my commissions will be donated to one of my favorite charities, the National Park Foundation.
I’ve been blessed with the opportunity to visit many of our National Parks (here’s the list of my 10 favorites) - here’s what I’ve said about the experience in a previous post:
“There’s something about the sense of awe one gets when seeing these landmarks of nature that always manages to put me in a very good place - a good case in point is Grand Teton in Wyoming. Every time I visit there (which is about annually) I feel calm, renewed and revitalized. I can’t really explain exactly why - but I do think it’s spiritual.”
These places need to be tended to and preserved for future generations. Unfortunately, government funding is woefully inadequate to do everything that really needs to be done, like rebuilding roads, remodeling buildings, and hiring more park rangers.
So if you are going to buy one of these books, buy it here, so a little bit of that sale can go to our National Parks.
Thanks, and Happy Holidays!
A Tribute to Perseverance: Marti Lawrence and “7 Ways You Screw Up Your Life (and how to unscrew it)”
Filed Under: Featured Articles • Fellow Half-Fullers • Half-Full Book Review
Marti Lawrence is one of those people who make you smile every time you hear from her. Her online demeanor is nothing but sunshine.
And I find that absolutely inspiring, for reasons that go well beneath the surface.
Marti, you see, has not had an easy life. She has gone through a lot of hardship and pain, setbacks and losses. While that in and of itself is not entirely unusual, how she’s handled all of that, and lived to tell about it with a sparkle in her eye, is the real inspiring story.
So it wasn’t a hard decision when Marti asked me to make a contribution to her latest book, “7 Ways You Screw Up Your Life (and how to unscrew it)”. This book is a marvelous distillation of all of the coping mechanisms and positive perspectives that she has put to such good use in her own life.
What’s more, this advice is handed out with great humor and panache, which adds a lot of sugar to help the medicine go down.
Marti has broken it all down to what she calls “7 Deadly Screw Ups” - and came up with a very appropriate acronym to sum them up:
FUGGDUP
(See, I told you she has a great sense of humor!)
I ask you to buy this book to find out exactly what’s behind the acronym, as well as the ways you can “unscrew” up once you are “fuggdup” (gosh, I could have fun with this all day long).
And yes, I have contributed a short little chapter to the book, entitled “The Roller Coaster Theory“.
To make it even more of a slam dunk for you to buy this book on Amazon, I’m pleased to offer a 20% discount off the cover price of $12.95. Just use this discount code when you check out:
5SJMRP5B
Don’t be fuggdup. Buy this book. And smile, knowing that you’re getting some incredible advice from someone who knows a little something about perseverance. Bless you Marti, and may you continue to spread your joy and wisdom to this world.
Bouncing is Always Better than Standing Still: Lessons in Confidence Building
Filed Under: Half-Full Book Review • Half-Fullism
Barry Moltz has failed. More than once.
And he’s not afraid to tell you.
Of course, he’s had his share of success as well, but what makes his new book “Bounce” such an interesting and thought provoking read is his refreshing honesty.
What else would you expect from someone who’s already written a book called “You Need to be a Little Crazy”?
This honesty proves to be an effective way to present his keys to confidence building, as we “bounce” our way from one outcome, situation or event to another.
What are these keys? Barry organizes his book into 10 of them (called “building bands”), but there were 4 in particular that interested me the most:
- Developing Humility
- Channeling fear and making choices
- Less focus on events and more on process
- Using passion to keep up the good fight
As someone who is a great proponent of the role of humility in “Level 5” leadership as defined in the book “Good to Great”, Barry’s view was spot on. He writes:
“Humility reminds us to respect the power of our competitors, our customers, and how vastly complicated the business world can be. It’s like sailing on the ocean, riding the waves high, but respecting the power of nature, knowing that a storm can brew up at any moment with the power to set you off course or, worse, sink your boat”
Humility is about taking responsibility for our actions, but also realizing that our actions are taken within the context of forces that very often can be beyond our control. (the recent subprime mortgage mess is a very good example). Knowing this helps us bounce ahead when things don’t go our way as well as when they do.
As for fear, Barry believes (as I do) that it can actually be a good thing, because it’s an energy that can be channeled. The great term he uses is “teaching the butterflies to fly in formation”. Since fear can never be eliminated, why not use it? More than anything, we cannot let fear lead to paralysis. Most of the time, a deep breath and a step back will reveal that we always have choices, the “antidote to fear”, and those choices allow us to bounce once again.
Focusing on the processes that lead us to good or bad outcomes is another way to build resiliency and confidence, says Moltz. He believes we spend much too much time categorizing these events, and not enough time analyzing about how we got to those points. When I read this all I could keep thinking about was “It’s the journey, not the destination”. Because one man’s failure is another man’s success, understanding and learning from all of our past experiences is yet another way to bounce forward.
Lastly, there’s passion – the rocket fuel for fighting failure, and building lasting confidence. Barry calls it “the only thing that will bounce the businessperson off the bottom”. But we must understand where our passions come from, and if what we’re doing every day is in line with that passion. Granted this is something we’ve heard many times before, but in my view I can never hear it (or read it) enough, especially in this context.
In the end, to Barry it’s all about making better decisions – and the way to do that is to keep “bouncing”. We have to get into and stay in the game – we need to make choices, over and over again, with humility and passion, understanding and channeling our fears, and focusing on the journey instead of the destination.
I’ve always called this “a bias toward action”.
There’s certainly much more to this book than what I’ve presented here. Barry draws frequently from his own life experiences and learning, and those are the most effective passages. It is certainly not a “know it all” book, written more out of hubris than a desire to share hard earned knowledge. It’s not a bunch of happy faces wrapped around an “easy 5 step plan”.
Nope, it’s a very “grounded” approach – here’s someone who’s not afraid to admit he’s failed (and tell you why), or tell you what you might not want to hear in a self-help book. Or tell you that once you read the book, you should throw it away (yes, he really says this, but you’ll need to read the book to find out why).
In other words, it’s a book with a foundation in honest reality but yet ultimately optimistic about the human condition, and our ability to bounce.
Sounds a little like Half-Fullism Barry – welcome to the club!
The Half Full Book Review: “Personality Not Included” by Rohit Bhargava
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Should a business have a “face”? Should an enterprise exhibit human-like traits to set it apart from straight-laced, by the book and bureaucracy-deep “corporations”?
The answer to these two questions is unequivocally “yes”, according to the excellent book “Personality Not Included” by Rohit Bhargava.
(click Starbucker’s Amazon Store to find out how to buy it, right now)
I must confess he had me at hello on this one, because my bias was already pointed firmly in this direction, but nevertheless, Rohit did an excellent job of drawing me in with his no nonsense writing style, intelligent pacing and organization, and a clear passion for the subject.
Once drawn in (I also must admit - wow, lots of confessions on this one - I loved the cover and what I call the “funky chicken” - see the picture above), I was impressed by the way Rohit lead me through the process of properly “building” a company personality.
First he outlined all the key elements. I especially liked his “UAT Filter“- the three core qualities of a company personality:
- Unique
- Authentic
- Talkable
Spot on. And he presented great examples from several companies for each element.
Then Rohit did something that many book writers do not do - he wrote a “Part 2″ that showed us how to actually put those elements into action, and gave us a bunch of tools to use to boot.
As my readers know, I’m all about the human side of a business. Actually showing that side to our customers is surely a good thing - it’s the key to delighting them and making sure they stay with us for a long, long time.
Because people just aren’t buying a product or service - they are buying “into” a positive experience. Rohit Bhargava, by virtue of his great experience as a marketing consultant, gets this “big time”, and better still he’s written a definitive book that explains it all in a practical, understandable and actionable way.
Thank goodness I opened my goody bag from Blogger Social and saw that Funky Chicken staring at me (love that Funky Chicken)!
Well done Rohit, well done. See you at the next Blogger Social, after you’ve become a big time author. Hope I don’t have to stand in line…….
John Adams and the Stubbornness of Facts
Filed Under: Featured Articles • Half-Full Book Review • Leadership
A few years ago (pre-blogging) I really enjoyed reading the book “John Adams” by David McCullough, so it’s been no surprise that I’ve been enthralled by the HBO miniseries of the same name that is in the middle of its seven episode run.
The courage, intelligence, eloquence, and tenacity of Adams and our founding fathers was never so vividly illustrated than in the re-enactments that have been portrayed on the screen.
I have to admit I was nearly in tears watching the final deliberations over whether or not the colonies would declare independence, stirred by the passion for freedom and liberty but balanced by the fear of what was to come from their decision.
I was particularly impressed by Adams, who again and again would remind his fellow congress attendees that the facts were speaking for themselves - the British had already essentially declared war on the colonies by their words and actions against them. There was really no choice but to stand up to the tyranny and declare independence.
It wasn’t the first time Adams publicly convinced other people that facts should rule - in 1770 he conducted the defense of the British soldiers accused of murder in the Boston Massacre, an almost impossible task given the Bostonians’ hatred of British rule.
In his summation to the jury, he said this:
“Facts are stubborn things; and whatever may be our wishes, our inclinations, or the dictates of our passion, they cannot alter the state of facts and evidence.”
He won that case, by the power and persuasiveness of his words, and (of course), the facts.
What a valuable lesson to take from him - it can be applied to our world of business by this maxim - “if you can’t measure it, you can’t manage it“. That’s what I thought of after the impact of Adams’ words sunk in.
No matter how well we THINK things are going, or we HEAR things are going, if the facts say otherwise - the facts MUST rule. So we must generate the appropriate facts in our businesses that guide our decision making, and temper any feelings or emotions that may obfuscate those facts and put us down the wrong path.
Easier said than done, but if we can stick to our principles like John Adams did so well, we have nothing to worry about.
Take my advice and read the book and watch the miniseries - you will be enriched and inspired too!
A Book Affair to Remember on Joyful Jubilant Learning
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Happy Monday!
There’s a love affair going on over at Joyful Jubilant Learning, a site that I’m proud to contribute to on a regular basis.
It is a site that celebrates learning, in all of its forms - as a means to expand our horizons and enrich our lives.
The love affair is about books - lots of them. The JJL authors are presenting reviews of their favorite texts all through the month of March.
Today, it was my turn, and I reviewed “The 4-Hour Workweek” by Tim Ferriss.
Check out my review, and all the other reviews on JJL - I’m sure you will get the same sense of “learning wonder” that I do every time I read a post there (as well as get some great recommendations on books!).
Have a great week everyone!
Starbucks Takes a Time Out – But Are They a Day Late and a Latte Short?
Filed Under: Half-Full Book Review • The Business Pages
Yesterday, around 5:30 EST, Starbucks closed its 7,100 US stores for three hours so it could “retrain” its teammates on the art of making espresso drinks.
(Thankfully, I was not in need of a latte at that time.)
It’s amazing how far this company has fallen, in that it needed to do something this dramatic to revive its fortunes.
CEO Howard Schultz encouraged all of his teammates on a video message by proclaiming “This is not about training. This is about the love and compassion and commitment that we all need to have for the customer”
That’s vintage Howard – the Howard I praised and admired when I reviewed his book “Pour Your Heart Into It”. The “Starbucks experience” was something he originally treasured and nurtured. And it paid huge dividends – Starbucks became a welcoming “third place” that people could visit and linger, savoring the intoxicating smell of the roasted beans and nestling down in comfy chairs with their triple lattes, hand made by smiling baristas.
But alas, something appeared to happen somewhere along the way that fundamentally changed this equation – it seemed that the focus on growth and profit eclipsed the focus on the customer.
Or was there something else going on as well that hastened this almost desperate effort to reclaim the higher ground?
I’ve been going to Starbucks regularly for over 15 years – I too was originally attracted by that “third place” vibe, as well as the boldness of the brew. It didn’t take me long to be hooked. But as every year has gone by, I’ve been less and less focused on it as a “place” and more focused on it as simply a means get my morning latte, and as quickly as possible.
It’s like you discover something that is really best enjoyed in a leisurely and “fuller” way, but reality sets in because you just don’t have the time and so you narrow it down to its bare essential – hot espresso with steamed milk.
Perhaps Howard sensed this same change in his customers as the Starbucks empire expanded – that certainly would explain their switch to automated espresso machines. If you’ve read Howard’s book you’d be hard pressed to believe that would be something he would ever allow to happen.
But it did.
They needed to push more customers through the store. “Need more growth”, the investors and analysts said. “I need my latte quicker” said Terry Starbucker (and most likely many, many more folks like me).
It was a lethal combination. The vibe is long gone, and now Starbucks is just a coffee commodity competing with the McDonald’s and the Dunkin Donuts of the world. Espresso has been “McDonaldized” (see my recent post on that).
From a personal standpoint, I guess I’m getting from Howard what I evolved to ask for – I do indeed get my daily latte quite quickly each morning (and it still tastes pretty darn good). And so I look at this recent action quite ambivalently, since I’m long past sitting in those comfy chairs and reveling in the espresso making experience.
So be careful Howard- I certainly don’t mind a few more smiles and a great deal more competence in your staff, but it’s going to be much, much harder to “retrain” your most loyal customers like me - I still need to get in and get out of your store in 3 minutes.
It’s just too little, too late when it comes to turning the clock back 15 years. The ship has sailed.
Leadership Thought of the Week: Be an Enabler, Not a Disabler
Filed Under: Featured Articles • Half-Full Book Review • Joyful Jubilant Learning • Leadership
Last week while I was on the road I finally got a chance to read the book “The 4-Hour Workweek“, by Timothy Ferriss (check it out here on my Amazon page).
I’ll be posting a full review of the book on March 10 on Joyful Jubilant Learning (bookmark it or subscribe now so you don’t miss it), but I wanted to raise a particular leadership point featured in the book today, because I believe in it so fervently.
I’ll put the point in my own words: “Empowerment Equals Leadership Freedom”
Or perhaps a more pointed subtitle, “Be an Enabler, Not a Disabler”
Ferriss talks about this in a quite different context than I would (he uses it as a means to a different end - stay tuned for the book review), but he makes a powerful case nonetheless for “pushing down” as much responsibility as possible. His key observation:
“It’s amazing how someone’s IQ seems to double as soon as you give them responsibility and indicate that you trust them”
Ah yes, trust. I’ve personally seen someone grow two inches taller upon my utterance of these magic words - “I trust you”.
It is a marvelously enabling string of words - and not without risk. It takes a good degree of courage to let something go, since as humans I think we have a tendency to be control freaks. I can personally attest it’s a pretty strong thing to resist.
But resist we must, because from a leadership perspective enabling reveals something else - our effectiveness in selecting and hiring teammates.
Because if we can’t entrust someone with proper responsibilities commensurate with the job description, we simply shouldn’t hire them. Having too many “disabled” teammates chains a leader to too much minutiae, and gives him or her much less freedom to do what leaders really should be doing - LEADING.
And that’s the kind of freedom that leads us to our own promised land of job fulfillment.
Ferriss included a great quote from Henry David Thoreau in his book that sums it all up very nicely:
“A man is rich in proportion to the number of things he can afford to let alone”
So set them free, and find the richness in your leadership life.



