Leaders are constantly processing information, and are often called upon to make decisions based on that information.
Or not make them.
That’s where our knees come in.
Sometimes the nature of this information, its source, or the manner in which it was delivered, puts some kind of strange electric charge into the knee, and consequently, it jerks upward, causing a powerful reaction.
And a big leadership mistake.
Mainly, a very premature and ill-informed action or decision.
It’s the classic knee-jerk reaction.
It can badly wound or even ruin many a career, but it doesn’t have to be that way – if this little “tic” can be controlled.
There are three main ways to do it:
- Proper Anger Management
- Respect for the Facts
- Keeping Hearsay in Perspective
Let’s start with anger management. It lurks in many places in the workplace. It can be triggered in many ways – by an e-mail, or a remark at a meeting, or a contentious phone call. Or by a negative report that points a finger at you. Or maybe something as innocuous as spilling hot coffee on your brand new shirt.
Anger goes right to the knee, because it’s an emotion that is asking (no, begging) for a release. I’ll give you a classic example – the flaming e-mail. You know the one. The e-mail that makes your blood boil before you even finish reading it. You want to immediately write a response that fights the fire with more fire.
These kind of knee jerks can practically cause a hernia, they are so strong. Anger must be managed – that release must go somewhere other than the knee. Do some deep breathing. Take a walk. Go into your coat closet and scream. Chant “serenity now” (don’t knock it, it has worked for me). Just don’t let that knee jerk! Deal with it later, when you’ve gotten that release another way.
Then, there’s respect for facts and keeping hearsay in perspective. These two go hand in hand. I’ve seen hearsay sink a lot of leadership ships because that pesky knee jumped way, way up and made a hasty decision based on very sketchy information. Facts MUST be respected, in nearly every case.
There’s always the question of how many facts a leader needs to make a good decision (using the gut instead of the knee) – because of the nature of business, many decisions just have to be made with less than 100% of what is needed. However, it’s a reasonable assumption to shoot for at least 50%; that’s my minimum threshold.
That eliminates the prospect of decision-making based on a single shred of information that may look compelling at first glance – those are very well suited to causing the knee-jerk – but upon further investigation turn out to be less than accurate, or just plain wrong.
“Facts are stubborn things”, said the great American patriot John Adams. What he didn’t say (and I’m sure her surely thought it) was that facts, and good anger management, will also save you a lot of trips to your orthopedist to pull that knee off your head.
Or, more importantly, trips to your bosses to explain your bad decisions.